It's Time for Something New

Two words - cabin fever.  Yup.  It has officially set in.  

My son keeps looking out onto the deck and asking to go play outside.  I can't blame him.  I keep finding myself gazing out the kitchen window at the blue skies and warm sun.  Then I look at the outdoor temperature, in my mind hoping that it will miraculously say it's in the 60s.  Yeah... that hasn't happened yet.  

When it's warm outside, it's all I can do to keep my boy in the house until 9:30 am (sometimes I let him out earlier...).  He's clearly an outdoors kid.  Now here we are in February, there's no snow on the ground (which is no different from the rest of the winter), appears to be beautiful outside, and it's still in the 30s (if that).  Oh, and might I add, Punxsutaney Phil saw his shadow.  I don't put any stock in Groundhog Day, but still... it's a downer.  

Yes, I'm complaining.  And for those of you fellow New Englanders who may argue that we've had a few seasonably warm days lately, you're right.  Unfortunately those few hours that the temperature dares to climb into the 40s (or higher) happen to be lunch and nap time here in toddlerland.  Yet another downer. 

What can be done about cabin fever?  

"Sing to the Lord a new song;

sing to the Lord all the earth."

Psalm 96:1

This is a psalm that I have heard referenced several times over the last month, and it's what came to mind this morning during another late-morning toddler tantrum.  I find myself blaming the weather for my son's outbursts.  If only I could send him outside... he'd be a different person, much easier for me to handle!  The weather is only partly to blame.  Sin nature is the other part - both mine and my son's.  

So guess what?  It's time to start singing a new song.  It's time to change things up again.  Where do I look for inspiration?  None other than Pinterest.  Oh yes, my friends.  If you haven't joined, just do it.  Here are some ideas I've come across that I'm hoping will help change the tune at our house.  

Source: tiffkeetch.blogspot.com via Carrie on Pinterest

"I love you this much!"  So fun!  

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Change things up with a "new" game.  Seriously... would this take any more than 10 minutes? 

Source: rustsunshine.blogspot.com via Carrie on Pinterest

Once again... cute and easy!  Could be artwork to send to grandparents, too!

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Definitely more time consuming initially, but I'm pretty sure my husband would have as much fun with this as my son!

Just a few ideas that we may be trying soon!  Whether you have a toddler or not, how are you going to "sing to the Lord a new song"?  Open the door long enough to let the grouchies out (and still keep the heat in) and rejoice in the Lord with each new day.  


~ Carrie ~

What Man Can Relate to a Stay-at-Home Mom?

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I struggle with the term "stay-at-home mom" sometimes.  Don't get me wrong - I am in no way questioning where God has me at this point in my life.  I absolutely love it!  I think my problem is that the term "stay-at-home mom" sounds too... simple... easy... uncomplicated... boring, even.  And none of those words describes a single day that I've had since having my son!  

I think no matter what you do with your life, at some point along the way you ultimately find yourself wondering, "Does anyone get what my life is really like?"  Or maybe you've found yourself thinking, "No one could last a day in my shoes." 

Whether you have literally had these thoughts or not, feeling over- or under-whelmed by life happens to us all.  Thankfully God brought this article to my attention, and it gave me a much needed dose of encouragement.  I hope you'll read it and be encouraged, too.

~ Carrie ~

What Man Can Relate to a Stay-at-Home Mom?

by Natalie Didlake

I sat down and made a list of all the rigors of wife- and motherhood I could possibly think of. There are…A LOT!

• Exhaustion
• Feeling alone or isolated from the outside world
• The struggle for regular, healthy rest and refreshment
• Having too many things to do
• Grief over your children’s rebellious hearts toward you and God, sometimes even frustration or anger
• Changes in your physical body due to childbirth/care and age
• The minute-by-minute flow of daily, constant demands
• Loss of a sense of control over your life in general
• Worries about the poor character you are passing on to your kids by example
• Loss of a sense of usefulness in ways you used to enjoy
• Loss of sleep
• Loss of mental/emotional rest
• Loss of time with husband
• Loss of a sense that your husband relates to your experience as a wife/mother, perhaps feeling lonely/isolated even in your own home
• Rejected and undervalued by our culture
• General despair and frustration
• Feeling distant from God because of all these imposed losses!

Whew! I’m ready for that list to be done. Won’t be re-reading that again! Too many of these hover over my head daily like a black Eeyore-cloud, following me everywhere I go.

There are so many days I can’t wait for my kids to nap so the house is quiet, for everybody to go to bed so I can take a break from meeting needs, sometimes…for everybody to grow up and leave!

I used to think the only one who really understood was a fellow mom. And, really, what help is that? A friend with 3 or 4 kids can’t do much but sympathize with my lack of sleep!

About a year ago, as I read through the gospels, I began noticing incidents in Jesus’ everyday life that startled me. Because they were very similar to the incidents that sometimes make my life sticky, as a stay-at-home-mom. So I started a list of all the troubles Jesus endured, all of them eventually culminating on the cross. Here it is:

Jesus was:

• Underappreciated
• Misunderstood
• Exhausted
• Physically worn down and destroyed
• Rejected
• His gifts and abilities were often ignored or discredited, and later totally rejected/wasted by the people who killed him
• Cut off from friends, family, and the outside world
• Bore the weight of the sins of the world, an impossibly huge demanding burden, on his shoulders, to hell for us.
• Lost all rest, well-being, comfort, closeness to God (physically, spiritually, and emotionally)
• Was rejected by his culture
• Totally lost control of his life and circumstances
• Felt total despair
• Was totally alone

So, there is a man who understands! Even when I’m in the trenches, poopy diapers a-plenty, lack of time, running on zero sleep, with guests coming over to eat the dinner I haven’t cooked yet. The remarkable thing about Jesus was, he suffered stress, despair, and isolation, but not because he doubted God (like I do) and believed he had no choice but to deal with it alone (like me).  He CHOSE to take it all on, so we wouldn’t have to.

Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us–for it is written, “Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree.” (Galatians 3:12)

More than before (since I made that list), my mind turns to Jesus when strain, stress, or tiredness creeps up on me. More than before, I don’t mind so much that it’s there. It crept up on Jesus, and he let it. He took it on for me. He understands! He’s is certainly my example for sacrificial motherhood, but oh so much more. His perfect love and life go on record for me. He’s my stand-in….better than a mom-friend!

"For Moms, Former Moms, and Wannabe Moms"

I had an idea for what to write today. It was about being a mom to my wonderful little boy (who is not always so wonderful...). It was about the ups and downs, good days and bad days, and smiles and tears. I had most of what I thought I wanted to say written and then I read an article that my husband skype-chatted me the link to. After reading the article, I immediately felt that what I had originally written for today was not the real message that God was giving me. This article got to the heart of all woman who are "...Moms, Former Moms, and Wannabe Moms." So whether Mother's Day for you is a day of joy, reflection, or mourning I urge you to read the following article and allow God to be at work in your heart this weekend.

For Moms, Former Moms,                   and Wannabe Moms

~ Carrie ~

An Early Happy Mother's Day

Here are some early Mother's Day sentiments that are sure to get you laughing.   






~ Carrie ~