Monday, April 18, 2011

How Awesome is that Day to Me





It’s official… Holy Week is here - beginning with Palm Sunday yesterday, continuing with many events throughout the week, and concluding with Easter Sunday.  I am in love with all the colors that this season and week bring - all the greens, yellows, pinks, and purples are so cheery!  This week, however, I’m trying to focus less on flowers and food preparations and more on making Holy Week holy unto the Lord, as John Piper so aptly put it.  (Check out his Desiring God blog for recommended readings during Holy Week.)
 
Besides church yesterday, our family also had the opportunity to participate in a “Journey to the Cross” event at our church.  This was a very meaningful time of reflection on the events leading up to and including the death and resurrection of Christ.  We had a simple stew meal together and then individuals or families made their way through 13 stations throughout the church in which there was some sort of visual or tangible display and a Scripture reading.  At each station we were encouraged to focus on and pray about different areas of application for each of these events.  It was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced and I am truly grateful for the opportunity to have participated in it. 

As I have continued this morning to ponder the final events in the life of Christ leading up to his death and resurrection, and as I have been planning out a few things that I personally will be concentrating on, I came across this poem that I thought was so fitting for this week.  I hope this is on the forefront of your mind and is the prayer of your heart this week. 

How awesome is that day to me-
O day of hallowed history!
Set time in God’s determined plan
To sacrifice the Son of Man.
What famous work that day was done
By Jesus Christ, His Perfect Son!
The Second Adam, sent to save,
Humbly obeying to the grave!


How savage is that day to me-
O day of pure brutality!
When Christ, the Son of God Most High,
Was fiercely whipped and hung to die.
And O the horror of my sin,
Seen there in His appalling skin!
For God struck down- as meant for me-
The sinless One, at Calvary.


How precious is that day to me-
O day of purchased liberty!
In Him, a freeman now I live;
My sins, through death, did God forgive.
No wrath at length looms o’er my head,
But lovingkindness there instead.
His righteousness, my guilt replaced,
And Love, this ransomed soul embraced!


O awesome, savage, precious day-
‘Tis God the Savior on display!
What peerless, holy, gracious Mind
Would fashion such a Grand Design?


Kevin Hartnett works for NASA at the Goddard Space Flight Center in Greenbelt, Maryland, overseeing the science operations activities of the mission. He was selected in 2003 from a thousand candidates as the “Poet of the Year” by the Fellowship of Christian Poets.

Have a blessed Holy Week!

~ Carrie ~

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Backyard Adventures

It finally feels like spring is coming!  The weather in my particular New England state is still as unpredictable as ever, but thankfully the snow finally seems to be gone for good.  We’ve enjoyed many sunny days with temps occasionally rising to the point of giving a little hope that summer may not be far away either.  Then there are the days of nothing by gray skies, thunder, and rain.  (FYI: Wednesday was that day for us, and it also happened to be the day I’d planned on doing my grocery shopping.  Yeah… not fun.)  Then there are the occasional days of cold to remind us that we are still in New England.  Today’s high temp is 47 degrees and right now it’s only 41! 

With all of this great weather we’ve been having (with the exception of Wednesday) I’ve found it difficult to keep my 2-year old inside on the rainy and/or cold days.  I’m not quite sure how I kept him in most of the winter!  One day this week, he spent approximately 90% of his play time outside.  It doesn’t bother me at all because he mostly entertains himself and only requires minimal supervision.  Unfortunately some of my housework has gone by the wayside, but it’s a worthy sacrifice! 

My thoughts for today mostly stem around outdoor activities for toddlers.  We try not to accumulate a lot of “stuff”, so we’ve tried to make the few outdoor toys and activites that we do have very worthwhile and purposeful so as not to spend unnecessary money (even if it is a great deal that is difficult to resist) and to encourage plenty of creative and imaginative play.  Excluding basic balls, buckets, and shovels, here are the outdoor toys that we (or a family member) have invested in with a brief description of what it is and why we chose that particular toy or activity.

Basketball Hoop – We very rarely purchase toys for Jadon without it being a special occasion (like a birthday or Christmas pretty much).  I also don’t purchase a toy simply because Jadon loved playing with it at a friend’s house.  This basketball hoop, however, is pretty much the only toy that we have that is an exception to both of these rules – and it has probably been the best toy investment that we have made.  It spent the winter in the house, often in our basement toy room.  As soon as the weather turned nice, out it went.  I can easily say that hardly a day goes by that Jadon doesn’t play with his hoop.  It’s really been great to see him as he’s grown (so the hoop needs to be raised) and become more coordinated (no longer just dunking but being able to take a shot from a distance.  It’s also great for Mom and Dad to play P-I-G!  Guess who usually wins? :-)

Bubbles – I’m sure they’re out there somewhere, but I for one have yet to find a child who does not like bubbles.  From the kind that make bubbles the size of small children to your basic bottle of bubbles with a little round wand, kids love them!  Last summer I carried a container of bubbles in Jadon’s bag wherever we went and they came in handy multiple times when he needed some instant outdoor entertainment. 

Child-Size Bag Chair – This was purchased at the end of last summer but I wish I’d had it the whole summer.  They can be found at a number of stores, but I got my son’s at the Christmas Tree Shops for somewhere around $5.  It’s perfect for a snack and drink break out on the deck when playing outside and collapses to practically nothing for easy travelling (perfect to bring on vacation, to soccer games, or to other family member’s home throughout the summer). 

Cozy Coup Car – My in-laws found this car at a yard sale for $10.  It has minimal fading and a rip on the sticker dashboard (although that may have occurred after my son got his hands on it…).  He still hasn’t really figured out how to move around too much in it (mostly just in reverse), but we love it because it does encourage imaginative play.  He will point to the van and says “Mumma’s van,” the car and says “Daddy’s car,” and his car and says “Jadon’s car!”  Then he hops in and says, “Bye!”  Then we’ll talk about where he’s going and who he’s going to see (usually it’s Grammy or Grampy). 
Having fun last fall in the cozy coup!
Tricycle – This was a gift for his 2nd birthday.  We wanted to get him something to help develop  his coordination and something that would grow with him.  This should last him for several years.  Oh, and did I mention we found it in great condition on Craig’s List for $30?!  That’s about $22 than the cheapest place online!

Child-Size Picnic Table – We actually don’t have this yet, but I’m excited for it.  This is another Craig’s List purchase, but this time my husband’s parents found it.  We are hoping to finally purchase a patio table and chairs for our big deck in the next month, so this will be great for Jadon to sit and eat at when we decide to cook and eat out.  It will also be nice for some messy crafts during the summer. 

Kiddie Pool – This is a must for us.  I would have possibly opted for just a sprinkler (what we had in my family when I was growing up) but, considering the lack of grass that grows in our back yard, a kiddie pool is much… cleaner.  There are tons of them around, but Jadon’s is a $10 inflatable one from Target (no bells and whistles with it, just your basic pool).  Hey, I even enjoyed pulling my deck chair up to it and sticking my feet in!  Pull the basketball hoop to the side of the pool and you’ve got additional splashing fun!
Memorial Day Weekend 2010 (I'm thinking the water was a little on the cold side!)
Sand & Water Table – This is probably my favorite outdoor toy we have for our son.  It was a purchase for his 1st birthday and he used it all summer long.  We decided not to put any sand in it last year due to the fact that he was still putting everything in his mouth.  Water seemed to be the safest solution.  He kept himself so cool all summer long!  This spring we decided that he was ready for the sand and he’s done great with it – meaning, he hasn’t tried to eat it and most of it has stayed in the table.  Success!  Once the weather gets warm we’ll drain the sand out of it and put water back in.  Using sand now means we can get more time out of this toy.  He wouldn’t be using it right now with water in it – too cold!  Once the weather turns cold again after the summer we’ll put the sand back in.  We opted for a sand table that doesn’t really do anything (some squirt water and make noise) to promote more creative play.  He has a great time digging, filling up buckets, and burying “treasure”. 
Staying cool at his water table... FYI: I don't know why he's not wearing his swim trunks because he ALWAYS got himself soaked when playing in at his water table!
That’s my list.  I guess you could say it’s a warm weather survival guide!  We’re happy with our selection of activities and don’t plan on adding anything throughout the summer.  I’m sure many of you would suggest other play items that work well for your family.  Lots of families have the large play sets with climbing walls and slides for toddlers or even swing sets for older children, but we have a park about 3 blocks away and therefore don’t really have a need for any of that.  Please share your investments for summer entertainment for children.  I’d love to hear what you and your children love!

~ Carrie ~

Thursday, April 14, 2011

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Snack & Play Travel Tray


I've seen items similar to this and recently stumbled onto this particular one.  What's so appealing about this one over others?  It's made of nylon and has a foam core, which means it's flexible for storage purposes but still sturdy.  It has also been tested for safety and poses no concern in the event of an accident.  It can be secured onto a car seat or stroller.  I love the idea of limiting the tons of crushed goldfish that end up in my son's seat by the end of a long trip or the number of cups, books, and toys that fall off his lap and roll around into various unreachable areas of our van.  This will very likely be a purchase we make before the summer arrives.  For $19.99 + shipping, it doesn't seem like a bad deal.  Check out the web site here.  

~ Carrie ~
 

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

My Home Pick


I've decided to broaden my horizons a bit and change my Wednesday post to be more of a general home pick.  Seeing as I was already stretching the limits of the term "primitive" with some of My Primitive Picks, it just makes sense to make the change.  I'm also hoping that expanding into all areas of the home will be more appealing to many of you who wouldn't classify yourself as having a primitive style.  So now on Wednesdays in addition to decorative pieces and tips, you can expect to find my picks for household organization, cleaning, and crafting.  I guess you never quite know what will pop up on a Wednesday, so stay tuned!  


For now, I'll leave you with a link to a blog I've seen fellow bloggers referencing lately and had to check out for myself (A bowl full of lemons - blog).  I enjoy keeping my house fairly organized, but upon reading some of the posts on this blog I'm become completely convicted about certain areas of disorganization in my home.  I've become so intrigued by the 21 Day Challenge that I may just jump on the bandwagon and begin.  It is that time of year for spring cleaning, right?  Anyone else with me on this?


~ Carrie ~

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Monday, April 11, 2011

Ride of a Lifetime

I’m not a fan of roller coasters, which makes me very different from most of my friends and family members, including my husband.  I can pretty much only handle basic low-key roller coasters (a.k.a. the ones that 7 year olds go on) – no going upside down or rising to incredible heights for me.

As much as I dislike the ups and downs of roller coasters, the ups and downs of life can be even more challenging to face.  Last week was one of those weeks that dramamine wouldn’t have even touched.  Life is, unfortunately, full of this interweaving of joy and pain. 
This week I had the opportunity to be blessed by the testimony of a godly man experiencing both joy and pain during the final stage of his life.  This testimony was given by his children at his funeral.  This was, unfortunately the down of my week, but God used it to teach me more than I can express right now. 

Whether you knew this man or not, the testimony of how he shared the joy of Christ with others even through the immense pain that he was experiencing would speak measures to any open heart, enough to bring a person to tears.  He was even worshipping God in song during periods of extreme pain as he didn’t want to focus on his own suffering and discomfort, but rather on continuing to be a shining light for the gospel message. 

            “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirst for you;
            my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.
            So I have looked upon you in the sanctuary, beholding your power and glory.
            Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you.
            So I will bless you as long as I live; in your name I will lift up my hands.”
                                                                                             Psalm 63:1-4

I read the verses from this psalm recently and thought of this man who I’d spent much time praying for.  This psalm was his song.  Then God prompted me to consider if this is my song.  Even when life is difficult (“dry and weary”), do I still “earnestly” seek God?  Can I say that God’s great love is better than life itself? 

What difficult questions to answer.  What guilt and shame I felt for my own selfishness and shortcomings.  I’ve dealt with the emotional and spiritual confliction that the death of a loved one brings, but never have I left a funeral feeling more convicted to live a life that honors God more.  In the midst of this funeral (when my convictions and emotions were at their peak) we sang the song “My Tribute.”  I’ll end with the lyrics to this song that is so difficult for me (and many others) to sing simply because it such a great expression of our need and dependence on God and all that He has done for us.  

My Tribute
 
How can I say thanks for the things
You have done for me?
Things so undeserved yet you gave
To prove your love for me
The voices of a million angels
Could not express my gratitude
All that I am, and ever hope to be
I owe it all to thee

To God be the glory, to God be the glory
To God be the glory for the things he has done

With his blood he has saved me
With his power he has raised me
To God be the glory for the things he has done

Just let me live my life and
Let it be pleasing Lord to thee
And if I gain any praise, let it go to Calvary

With his blood he has saved me
With his power he has raised me
To God be the glory for the things he has done

In all of life’s ups and downs… to God be the glory!

~ Carrie ~

Friday, April 8, 2011

Happy Birthday Jadon!


 This past Saturday we celebrated my son's 2nd birthday.  It didn't feel like another year had passed, yet here we were at the end of March looking toward April 2nd.  

I remember holding Jadon in my arms when he was first born, smiling and thinking, “So this is who you are.”  The little unknown life inside of me had finally arrived.  It wasn’t long after that moment that we were facing some of those initial learning moments when you just want to have your baby understand that we’re new at this and don’t know what we’re doing yet.  I said to Andy, “He’s ours, but we’re still getting to know him.”  Well, so far we’ve survived the newborn stage, infancy, and have begun toddlerhood.  There have been some downs, but mostly ups, and no emergency room visits so far.  So what have I learned about my amazing little boy?  Here are just a few that things that come to mind (in no particular order):

  • Not only does he enjoy playing in dirt, but he’s eaten it on a couple of occasions. 
  • He only "helps" with the laundry so that he can play in the emptied basket... and so he can put on some of the more unmentionable items of Mom and Dad's (mostly Mom's).
  • He’s content to play outside with a shovel, bucket, and a few rocks. 
  • Squash gives him gas.
  • He enjoys waking people up with pig piles and wet willies. 
  • Teething is not only painful; it’s traumatic… for him and everyone around him.
  • Why walk when you can crawl really fast?
  • Why walk when you can run?
  • Being friendly is something he’s passionate about – so much that he has to say hi to everyone he meets… and continues to say hi until they respond to him.
  • Cuddling is reserved for times of sickness and extreme overtiredness only.
  • Any activity that involves a ball is automatically fun.
  • Daddy, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers are pretty much the coolest people he knows.
  • Dogs come second to Daddy, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers. 
  • Anything that goes “honk, honk” or “vroom, vroom” is also really cool.
  • Just because he likes it today doesn’t mean he’s going to like it tomorrow.
  • Popping bubble gum is hilarious.
  • Saying “cheese” requires closing his eyes as tight as possible and showing his teeth. 
  • He loves surprising Mom and Dad with new information he’s learned without our knowing (such as counting one to ten when we only thought he knew how to count to three!).
  • He remembers everything!
  • He befriends random individuals, such as the bread lady in the grocery store who he always has to have a conversation with.
  • Showing off his muscles requires holding his breath and tensing up his entire body to the point that he shakes.
  • He will eat when he’s good and ready.
  • He loves people, especially his family and (although he’s not a super cuddly kid) he doesn’t shy away from giving hugs and kisses to people he cares about.
I love this little boy so much and can’t believe he’s 2 already!   Maybe, just maybe the next 2 years will slow down a little more… but I doubt it.

I’ll end with a few pictures from Jadon’s truck birthday party last week.  Unfortunately Jadon was going through some teething and was not his happiest, but he pulled it together pretty well and the rest of us had a blast, too! 

The truck cake
The decorations (some of them)
And the birthday boy!  (with his cheesy smile, of course!)

Hope you have a great weekend!

~ Carrie ~

Thursday, April 7, 2011

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There's been a lot in the media lately about new car seat recommendations made by the American Academy of Pediatrics that had me scratching my head and asking a lot of questions.  In doing a little online research about all of this information, I came across this excellent video that cleared a lot up for me.  It's a longer video, but if you are a parent, grandparent, or caregiver this is definitely worth watching.  I learned a lot, and I'm sure you will, too!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

My Primitive Pick

My Primitive Pick this is week is…

Curtains!

There are so many types of curtains out there – in different styles and fabrics – it makes it easy to find something that works for your house.  A lot of people aren’t big on curtains, but I am.  (Why else would I include this as a primitive pick?) 

It all goes back to the tiny, basement apartment my husband and I first lived in when we got married.  I was excited, but mostly overwhelmed at decorating the place, even though there wasn’t much room to decorate and we didn’t have much to decorate with!  My mom actually came a couple weeks after we’d moved in and helped me hang some things on the wall and mentioned curtains for the few (5) windows we had in the apartment.  We had one mostly normal-sized window and 4 tiny typical basement windows.  I hadn’t really thought about curtains at all.  My mom volunteered to make the ones for the living room and it was up to us to get something up for the rest of the windows. 

In starting to shop around for curtains I quickly realized that they can get really expensive.  I decided that curtains weren’t really that important and put it off for the time being.  About 8 months later, we decided to paint our kitchen since neither of us cared for the color and it didn’t go with any of our kitchen stuff.  After that, I decided I should probably get some curtains and did.  I couldn’t believe how much of a difference it made in the hominess of our little kitchen!  A few months later I found a valance in a pile of clearance items in Wal-Mart that was perfect for our bedroom window and, once again, was blown away at the difference a valance could make!  My mom got busy and the time to make our living room curtains just wasn’t there for a while, but after living in our apartment for about a year and half she surprised me with the curtains, and they were perfect!  Oh, and once again made a huge difference in our apartment.  Basement windows are not at all attractive!

So, you can believe when we moved into our current home one of the first things on my docket (after unpacking all most of our belongings) was to measure and start shopping for curtains.  Shop online or in stores that are local to you.  Also, don’t forget about ebay.  There are ebay stores that have great prices on curtains.  For many of my curtains, I found the cheapest place that I could buy from was an online store called Jake’s Country Trading Post.  Seems random, but I had a good experience and would buy from them again.  (Below are a couple of pictures of curtains from the Jake's web site.)  



My only regret is that didn’t make at least some of my curtains.  In the last year I’ve learned how to sew and now realized how simple many curtain styles are!  (So why are they so expensive?) 
So, whether you are buying or making them, curtains are a great investment for your home.  Even if you aren’t now motivated to work at getting some curtains up in a particular room in your home or apartment, I’m at least hoping I’ve motivated myself to get some up in our bedroom which I’ve unfortunately neglected in this area!  Here’s hoping! 

~ Carrie ~

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Life24/7


 Hovering Around After the Party

Matthew 7:13-14

Monday, April 4, 2011

Psalm 139

It’s been quite a couple of weeks, hence why I chose not to blog last week.  Our family was able to go visit my husband’s brother, wife, and their daughter last weekend to celebrate her first birthday and dedication at church.  It was a wonderful weekend with lots of family and friends. 
We came home last Monday and the next morning friends of our arrived for a visit.  These are friends we don’t see often, but we care for very much.  Thanks to facebook, we are able to stay in close contact.  Our sons were born less than 24 hours apart from each other (which is still a bit of a sore spot for them, since their little boy was 10 days late and mine was born on his due date!).  There’s nothing quite like talking with someone who has not only been there, but is there right now!  And when you throw a little ice cream in the mix, it makes for a perfect visit!  
My son and his friend who came to visit.  Best buds! :)
After our friends left, it was time to get moving on preparations for my son’s 2nd birthday party on Saturday.  It was so much fun!  We had lots of family and friends at our house and ate lots of goodies.  (I’m sure a few pics will be posted in the near future.)  By the end of the day the 3 of us were exhausted!  Needless to say, we all slept well Saturday night! 
Throughout our long, exhausting, fun-filled week, my mind kept pondering the same passage, which I read and prayed through multiple times – Psalm 139.  This is a favorite psalm of mine, and I’d encourage you to also pray through it.

Psalm 139

You have searched me, LORD,
   and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
   you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
   you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue
   you, LORD, know it completely.
You hem me in behind and before,
   and you lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
   too lofty for me to attain.
Where can I go from your Spirit?
   Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
   if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
   if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there your hand will guide me,
   your right hand will hold me fast.
If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
   and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you;
   the night will shine like the day,
   for darkness is as light to you.
For you created my inmost being;
   you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
   your works are wonderful,
   I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
   when I was made in the secret place,
   when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
   all the days ordained for me were written in your book
   before one of them came to be.
How precious to me are your thoughts, God!
   How vast is the sum of them!
Were I to count them,
   they would outnumber the grains of sand—
   when I awake, I am still with you.
If only you, God, would slay the wicked!
   Away from me, you who are bloodthirsty!
They speak of you with evil intent;
   your adversaries misuse your name.
Do I not hate those who hate you, LORD,
   and abhor those who are in rebellion against you?
I have nothing but hatred for them;
   I count them my enemies.
Search me, God, and know my heart;
   test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me,
   and lead me in the way everlasting.

I’m so grateful to serve a God who knows my comings and goings before I even know them – a God who cares about me and my family.  The past week (with all of its celebrations and tears) has been a huge reminder of just how precious life is.  God is the creator and sustainer of all life.  He concerns himself with life – with my life.  He not only desires to be with us wherever we go and in whatever we do, but he desires to lead us in all aspects of life.  What a great God! 

~ Carrie ~